"...we're more interested in raising godly children than smart children." ~R.C. Sproul
Every once in awhile I come across a blog posting that makes me question certain beliefs or assumptions I've held. My need for community becomes so important as I seek varying points of view on the specified topic to help my jumbled thoughts become more organized and "debate" my way to a clearer point of view. This is one such instance. I came across a blog about homeschooling. Up to this point, I have always believed in the ideal of homeschool over public school, but those who choose otherwise could do so without nary a judgment call from me. I've read my share of homeschool books and blogs where many hold an "extremist" viewpoint, e.g. as a Christian, if you're not homeschooling, you're not fully embracing your parental rights and duties to bring your children up in the admonition of the Lord and essentially you're throwing your children to the wolves of society (my words, not theirs). I tend to initially scoff at or ignore anything that shouts extremism and rejects balance. I don't like the idea of the harsh judgments behind some of their statements and beliefs, and I feel parents can pray about their educational choice for their children and come to different conclusions.
And then I read Top Five Reasons Not to Send your Kids Back to Government School1 by Voddie Bauchman. I have no idea who Voddie Bauchman is or what his doctrinal position is or anything about him. I just know he made some interesting and compelling (possibly even sometimes inflammatory) arguments against public school. Two of his bigger points are:
GOVERNMENT EDUCATION IS ANTI-CHRISTIAN
“I am as sure as I am of Christ’s reign that a comprehensive and centralized system of national education, separated from religion, as is now commonly proposed, will prove the most appalling enginery for the propagation of anti-Christian and atheistic unbelief, and of anti-social nihilistic ethics, individual, social and political, which this sin-rent world has ever seen.” -A.A. Hodge
Jesus made it quite clear when he said, “Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.” (Matthew 12:30 ESV) I am amazed at how many Christians refuse to acknowledge this fact as it relates to the government school system. Our education is either based on biblical truth, or some other truth. There is no such thing as neutrality in this regard. All education is religious in nature.2 Since it is illegal for students in our government schools to be taught from a Christian perspective, then it follows that they must be taught from a non (or anti) Christian perspective.
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THE BIBLE COMMANDS CHRIST-CENTERED EDUCATION
“This whole process of education is to be religious, and not only religious, but Christian…. And as Christianity is the only true religion, and God in Christ the only true God, the only possible means of profitable education is the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” -Charles Hodge
I recognize that educational antinomianism* is the norm in the modern American church. According to the common refrain, “It doesn’t matter what educational choice you make... you just have to pray about it and do what the Lord leads your family to do.” However, I must confess I find this concept disturbing on a number of fronts. First, this kind of thinking denies the sufficiency of Scripture. The Bible speaks either directly, or principally to every aspect of life. There are no grey areas. Sure, there are things that are difficult to discern, but education is not one of them. Though you won’t find the word ‘education’ in Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance, there are a number of passages that speak directly to the issue of training ourselves and our children intellectually, spiritually, philosophically and morally (See Deut. 6:6,7; Prov. 1:7; Eph. 6:4, etc). We also have numerous warnings against allowing others to influence us intellectually, spiritually, philosophically, and morally (Psalm 1;
I have also heard others speak of their children being a witness to those around them in school. For our children to be "the salt and light of the earth" while in school at the impressionable age of x under the tutelage of a secular teacher in a secular school for how many hours a day makes no sense to me (at least, until they are at an age where they understand responsibility, can reason logically with others and have a firm foundation of God's Truth and a calling to evangelize to their fellow students in school - I'm thinking possibly high school or college). I am by no means discrediting the witness our precious, innocent children can have on others; rather I am most protective of it. R.C. Sproul writes about this in his book When You Rise Up, "Do I care about the lost? Of course I do. Do my children care about the lost? Enough that they can pray for them at school, out loud, every day. I am homeschooling precisely so my children will be able to know, recognize, and love the enemy, while not becoming the enemy. And just as their ability to love the enemy into the kingdom isn't contingent on their being trained by the enemy, in like manner their ability to love the enemy into the kingdom isn't contingent on their being in the enemy's schools." He goes on to say, "Never will I put my children under the authority of those who are enemies of the gospel, who despise the lordship of Christ such that his name cannot even be mentioned. That we must never negotiate." He finishes by saying, "May it never be said again of any of those who name the name of Christ that they rendered unto Caesar the things that are God's - His covenant children."4 Wow - pretty heavy. Does this sound a bit extreme to you? Militant even? To call our public schools the things of Caesar's and the enemies of God can be a bit strong, especially for those of us who attended public schools and may have had very good experiences there. No doubt there are some wonderful public school teachers, even Christian ones who see their career also as their life's mission. Should we expect our 6-year-olds to be missionaries though? Can public education be neutral?
The beautiful monastics throughout church history were cultural refugees; they ran to the desert not to flee from the world but to save the world from itself.3
Two of the biggest objections to homeschooling which I can completely understand and relate to is 1.) the lack of knowledge about it and 2.) the fear of the responsibility. As parents we don't feel qualified to teach our children what we feel they need to know to go out in the world and make a life. We somehow "taught" them to walk, talk, think, reason, count, get dressed, do chores, become more independent, love God, but we can't wrap our brains around trying to teach them to read, write, explore, discover and to actually and personally know God and His Word. In a sense, we've given up on the most important lessons and entrusted them to Sunday school teachers and schoolmasters. It is this fear of responsibility of teaching the most important of life's lessons that cripples our duties in carrying them out. Sproul calls it "a scary business."
"You can recognize the weight of training your children, of raising them in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. It is indeed a great responsibility. You can't, however, change your mind and decide not to so raise your children because it's too hard. They are your responsibility, and denying your responsibility won't change your situation."
"Everyone else on the entire planet, I believe, is better equipped than I am to raise a servant of the state. I'm not the guy to do that job. I am, however, equipped to raise servants of the King. I know that because the King keeps giving me servants to raise.
What does it take to raise children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord? The Bible, and the Holy Spirit to illumine the Bible. I have a Bible. I have several, in fact. And the Bible tells me that it equips me for every good work."4
The above arguments put forth by Bauchman and Sproul are not necessarily and wholly my own yet, however they are stated so emphatically and with such spiritual conviction, it jars my sense of perspective and balance on acceptable educational choices for the Christian family (which is why I'd love to hear varying opinions from you). I'm not quite sure where these insights will lead me - ultimately I pray and hope agreement with the above points by anyone will not lead to judgment of others and the viewing of unhomeschooling Christians in a negative light. I do think it would be an easy ticket to an "I'm right because I'm homeschooling, and you're wrong because you're not" attitude. On the other hand, I do feel the argument put forth by these authors have helped to clarify my own purpose in homeschooling. What do you think?
“Let it be remembered, that I do not speak to the wild, giddy, thoughtless world, but to those that fear God. I ask, then, for what end do you send your children to school? “Why, that they may be fit to live in the world.” In which world do you mean, — this or the next? Perhaps you thought of this world only; and had forgot that there is a world to come; yea, and one that will last for ever! Pray take this into your account, and send them to such masters as will keep it always before their eyes. Otherwise, to send them to school (permit me to speak plainly) is little better than sending them to the devil. At all events, then, send your boys, if you have any concern for their souls, not to any of the large public schools, (for they are nurseries of all manner of wickedness,) but private school, kept by some pious man, who endeavours to instruct a small number of children in religion and learning together.” - John Wesley
1. All red text comes from the Voddie Bauchman Ministries blog: Top Five Reasons Not to Send Your Kids Back to Govt. School which I highly recommend reading the entire post.
2. Italics mine.
3. From Jesus for President by Shaun Claiborne and Chris Haw
4. All orange text comes from the book When You Rise Up, A Covenantal Approach to Homeschooling by R.C. Sproul
- Theology The doctrine or belief that the Gospel frees Christians from required obedience to any law, whether scriptural, civil, or moral, and that salvation is attained solely through faith and the gift of divine grace.
- The belief that moral laws are relative in meaning and application as opposed to fixed or universal.
I love Voddie Bauchum! I first heard him on Family Life Today and promptly looked up his website, listened to his podcasts, and read his blog. To me, many of his ideas are refreshing and inspiring. It seems so many Christians are content to be "not quite" like the world, but doesn't God call us to something more? "Be not conformed to the world, but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind..." and "THEREFORE, SINCE these [great] promises are ours, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from everything that contaminates and defiles body and spirit, and bring [our] consecration to completeness in the [reverential] fear of God."
ReplyDeleteIt is tough walking the line of wanting to do what is right and not judging others for their different choices. But is this, too, part of our worldly conditioning - tolerence, relativity, etc? I'm going to have to go read through the whole article again. Thanks for bringing it up and making me think. :)
I admit I used to shy away from being counted as an 'extremist' when it came to homeschooling my children. Yes, I am a Christian, but I didn't want to be one of 'those' Christians. But, the more I heard about the things being taught in the schools since we pulled our children out, the more I was ok with being called an extremist.
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I both feel it is not someone else's job to teach basics of a moral, ethical and philosophical education to our children. How are we to pass on our beliefs if we hand them over to the government?
Likewise, I believe there is a balance between standing firm in one's convictions and understanding that others do not share in those convictions. I am always willing to explain the genesis for home schooling my children to those who will listen but I expect to be met with some level of disagreement. When I feel like arguing back or trying to be a hammer for a Christ centered education I am reminded of the verse in Romans, "If possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone."
Thank you for encouraging me with clear, logical arguments for my choice in home schooling my children. There are times when I feel inadequate to explain my reasoning.
This is a topic I have been pondering a good bit in recent months. I really appreciate your insights and also the quotes - from texts that sound worth reading.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you about the legalistic (and sometimes patronizing) manner in which some homeschool proponets express their views... They strike me as unhelpful as well.
Really appreciate the post.
I can honestly say that I've never had negative thoughts toward homeschoolers, and my admiration for Moms or Dads that do it has increased since joining Kajijis. I too believe in the ideal of homeschooling for its great benefits, most of which is to have a Christ centered education and protection from influences of the world at a tender age.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I disagree with most of the points made in this post..As an aside, there is no mention of Christian schools. I wonder what the authors think of this, versus homeschooling..I would imagine they'd support it but I was surprised this wasn't mentioned as well.
1) govt education is anti-Christian..While it is certainly true that Biblical Truths are not in the forefront of science education, some schools do teach all theories on how life began, and in the public education I received as a Christian child, none of my other classes (English, Math, Social Studies, Gym, Art, Languages, etc) conflicted with the Truths I was taught at home or church and never swayed me because I had a solid foundation outside of school.
2)The Bible commands Christ-centered education..We do have to train our children in Scripture & the values & morals of our God, but there is nothing in Scripture to say it has to be outside of a public school..I rarely use this "argument" but times were very different when the Bible was written..and by sending children to school, we are very capable (and I agree, called to) teach our children at home as well intellectually, spiritually, morally and philosophically.
3) Children are too impressionable or immature to witness. This is absolutely not true..I was invited to a friend's church at the age of 8 and friends now have a child who was telling his 1st grade friends about hell..he did get spoken to unfortunately, but the seeds were planted and I've heard loads of testimonies over the years of children bringing other children and then whole households to the Lord-praise God! Honestly, most children I've known at church over the years have a stronger foundation in their faith than the adults! We are all called to witness as well, maybe not being "an evangelist" by full time position but it's a necessity for all of us and it comes naturally to children because at the younger ages they don't have the fear of rejection & busyness and all that we adults tend to wrestle with. I believe I can teach my daughter life's most important lessons at home while still sending her to school ..I don't believe it's a copout of "fear of responsibility"..but a responsibility for me to give her the best education possible..for me, I don't have the gift of teaching the subjects she'll learn about from those who are-she can learn lots about accounting, home finances, keeping a household, and
the Bible ..but I'm truly excited for her to learn about literature, composition, music and on and on from those whose life's passion it is..and my main reasonings for not planning to homeschool (Sarah's only 2 and a half!) are her deep need for socialization and the whole getting a better education on topics she's going to get a whole lot out of at school (at this point, Christian pre-school a year from now, and potentially beyond that for the same reasons listed here about Godly influences at an impressionable age-although I revel in the thought of her leading those who may never hear the Gospel on a personal level elsewhere and will go to hell at some point, hearing it from her at their impressionable ages!-thus my husband's and my need to pray about public vs private).
ReplyDeleteWouldn't the argument apply to homeschoolers who go to co-ops? Are they shirking their responsibilities to teach their children everything themselves by using others' gifts and talents to expand the kids' knowledge base?
Sunday School is wrong too? In my belief, the only thing wrong is to not participate in your child's learning of Jesus or school subjects or to not encourage them in their growth in all areas.
The thought that we send our children to school to "be fit to live in the world" is short-sighted in my opinion..It doesn't negate that we as Christian families have a responsibility to teach them the most important Truths-that of salvation, love, and limitless more from the Bible. I don't know what others think, but I believe that we do need to teach our kids the "basics" so that they can live & work in the world, as well as not "be of it."
In conclusion of my way too lengthy post (sorry!) just to be clear, I love that kids are homeschooled and truly believe in the reasonings that my friends have whom do it and if I had as many kids as "The Duggars" I might consider it more seriously :) I hope my comments haven't come off as militant, but just another perspective. I take very seriously the responsibility of parenting this precious child and look forward to teaching and coaching her when she experiences the world. Whatever that looks like down the road, it requires much prayer covering and courage for sure. -Love & Blessings, Stacy
This is a scary topic to me - akin to employed moms versus home full-time moms - where the danger of upsetting each other is strong enough for me to hesitate to comment... so I appreciate the courage of Crystal and each commenter to share their views in ways so loving and respectful. I will attempt to do the same.
ReplyDeleteI absolutely agree that gov't schools are anti-Christian. They never USED to be - when I was in school they weren't - but my understanding is that times have drastically changed - now children are taught about alternative lifestyles, (in such a way as to promote them),, mandatory Sex Ed and are taught buzz words like "tolerance" and "acceptance" - which are all ultimately a disguise for relativism - a completely anti-Christian line of thinking. Children are not allowed to mention God in writing, on clothing, or in speech. Most schools do not present Creationism - if they do, it is presented along the same lines as Native American and Ancient Civ. - not as a true scientific theory, but as legend. It is harsh language to call schools Anti-Christian, but the arguments put forth in this post are compelling and for me, rather convincing.
I agree that regardless of what choice we make for "formalized education," the Spiritual upbringing of our children is still OURS - but consider this -
There are roughly 12 waking hours in the average child's day. If they attend any school (even private Christian) they will be traveling to or in class from 7am-3pm. If they do anything after school (especially a sport) add an hour min. a day in games and practices. Homework, even in ELEMENTARY school averages about 1 hour/day (according to US News). Take out harried prep time in the morning, meal prep/clean up at night, any chores they might have and getting ready for bed and I am left with what MIGHT amount to 30 minutes a day to spend any kind of quality time with my children - not even considering any Spiritual training. For me, this just doesn't leave enough time for all I want to experience with my family - like playing games, going on walks, having long chats, making things, reading God's Word, etc... Not to mention the reality that if all I have is 30 minutes a day, and a bunch of other people (teachers and students) have 8 hours - how can I possibly expect my influence to outshine theirs?
In response to Stacy's questions about co-op's and Sunday School - in Co-op's (any I would participate in anyway) the parents are the teachers - so I am right there, every day, fully involved in the planning and implementing - it is a great way to provide social opportunities with individuals I actually want my children to socialize with as opposed to having no control. As far as Sunday school - I actually do have a major problem with Sunday school. I don't send my children, but I would consider it if it was structured completely differently. (another topic for another time).
I agree with Stacy that our biggest responsibility is to teach our children about Jesus and God's Word. But the conclusion I have come to is that I am pretty sure I will need more than 30 minutes a day with my kids to do that justice.
I have some of the same fears/concerns about being able to tackle subjects that aren't my forte, but I have done enough research into homeschooling to see that my limitations are not limitations to my children's education - rather, they are fabulous opportunities to be involved in the greater homeschooling culture.
Where I don't agree with Voddie Baucham is I don't think people who choose to send their kids to school are wrong or doing something un-Scriptural. As in all cases like this - we are called to pray, to do our research, to pray, to discuss it with other trusted Christians, to pray, and to make an educated, prayerful decision about what is best for our family and our circumstances. Which, of course will be tailor-made for each case.
Stacy,
ReplyDeleteI love that you are willing to share your differing opinions with us. That's why I love our group so much - the ability to lovingly agree and disagree on many topics! I was actually looking forward to the possibility of others pointing out why they disagreed with some of the viewpoints simply to challenge the thinking here. My theory is if I'm not being challenged, I'm not able to grow as much.
As far as Christian schools go, I believe the viewpoints expressed by Voddie Bauchman was actually more about sending your kids to private Christian school as opposed to government school (I didn't get the sense he was writing about homeschooling). So I do believe Christian schooling is included as a positive here as opposed to "government schooling."
If you don't mind, I'd like to address the points you made. The bit about public schools being anti-Christian does sound a bit harsh, and I do believe there are certain subjects like Math, Gym, Languages, etc. that by their nature don't conflict with God's Truth (thereby being labeled as "neutral"). However I have yet to hear of many, if any, public schools that teach Creationism. In my personal experience (my daughter attended public school from Grades 1-6), I came across just enough to make me question how it could be the best choice for her. Reading lists with suggested yet inappropriate library books, negative influential peers, iffy sex education (she happened to be out of school that week due to illness so I took it upon myself to teach her), and too much homework (5 hours of homework a night in 5th and 6th grade, leaving no time with or life for her) caused us to do some research on homeschooling. Our experiences with our daughter in government schools helped us to reach the conclusion that homeschooling was ideal.
Point #2 is a bit more vague to me, I will admit. I do believe the Bible teaches a Christ-centered education as mandatory, but I don't believe this necessarily negates other chosen educations if the parents are creating a good Biblical foundation at home. But you have to ask yourself how much time as a parent you have to teach that good Biblical foundation when your child is barely ever home (and when they are, they’re busy doing homework!).
As far as children being too impressionable or immature to witness, my statement of "I am by no means discrediting the witness our precious, innocent children can have on others; rather I am most protective of it" meant that I heartily believe my children can be a great testimony to the world at their age. However the influences out there are so strong and so destructive (I'm thinking about peers, never mind, teachers!), personally I would prefer to help cultivate my children's witness at home. My children get to witness to neighborhood children, other homeschoolers (not necessarily Christian), and adults they come in contact with on a daily basis. IMHO, I don't believe children have to go to school to be a witness to the world.
My comment on Sunday School was by no means a slam on the "institution" of Sunday School. From what I see though, most parents think Sunday School is sufficient when it comes to all things Biblically taught. I am guilty of this myself. Though we prayed and spoke of God with our daughter, we had hoped and expected her to learn about all the little Bible stories, songs and lessons one would expect from church. When she reached adolescence and we realized, after all those Sundays sitting under a S.S. teacher, she didn't know some of the most basic stories, I felt shame and regret as a parent that I had "pawned" that responsibility onto someone else other than myself. We have had to do some catching up, but it's been a hard lesson for me. (continued...)
Homeschooling gives parents the ability to monitor and account for just about everything that goes into our child’s minds and hearts. Even when I send my child off to a class not taught by me (whether it’s a co-op or other homeschooling mom), I know what is being taught and whether the teacher shares my convictions. We have the ability to make a choice as to what subject material is taught or not. There is accountability unlike what you’ll find in any other school.
ReplyDeleteI think it’s easy to formulate our own opinions based on our own experiences. I would encourage us all (myself included) to try to formulate our opinions based on prayer and research. I believe God would have us to take seriously every aspect of our child’s growth; it is far too easy to just live life and make choices without much thought. And if I were the Duggar’s (with 18 kids and counting), based on financial factors and patience limitations, I think it would be very tempting to seriously consider public school. The six hours of quiet and free time – are you kidding me? :-)
I tried to read comments after mine THREE times & couldn't log on-hmmm :) Now, after some time has passed and a few weeks ago I "suddenly" got this desire to homeschool myself, I am able to read the follow up comments by Crystal & Erin. Both of you have given me great info specifically about public schools of today that reinforce my desire to send Sarah to Christian school or to homeschool. Erin's comment about the time of the day "left over" with my child is VERY compelling. On the other hand, the school I've chosen has stated that they assign 1/2 hour of homework a night and only have a 4 day school week which is highly attractive! I'd also have to drive her there & back which would give me more quality time with her than sending her on a bus....BUT there are still tremendous advantages to homeschooling...so I, as always planned, intend to be praying this next year about God's perfect will for her! Thank you Erin for making the point that other choices are "acceptable" for other families :)
ReplyDeleteI'm saddened to hear that some Sunday school classes don't teach the basics to young kids..but I'm sure they're not all like that and I have a huge desire to integrate God and His Word into our daily life-even now that she's very young..just the other day she prayed for God to help me when I was mad at her!..Thank you all for your very thoughtful and thought-provoking comments!
Stacy,
ReplyDeleteWhat a neat-sounding school you're looking into! It sounds like a great balance of time at home vs. time at school. Stacy, I have overwhelming confidence that your daughter will learn everything she needs to know about God and the Christian life through her mom! You are a wonderful example of perseverance, humility, love and grace to all of us. God will bless your efforts in raising your daughter in the admonition of the Lord, I'm sure of it. :)